6 But He gives a greater grace. Therefore it says, “God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” 7 Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. 8 Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9 Be miserable and mourn and weep; let your laughter be turned into mourning and your joy to gloom. 10 Humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt you. James 4:6-10
I’ve heard it said, “If you don’t humble yourself – someone will do it for you.” Others will criticize us for our conduct or our attitudes – that is a given. In some part of our being, we resent that which feels like an attack on our person. We may seek to justify ourselves. “I’m not guilty of that.” “I’m not as guilty as you make me out to be.” Or we may go on the attack ourselves. “You’re no better than me.” “You have your faults too.”
We may be crushed. Even the most cursory introspection reveals failures as husband, father, grandfather, and Christian. If we have been thinking highly of our conduct or achievements in any of these areas, we will feel dispirited and hurt.
There is a freedom in humility. The humble man is not surprised to learn that he has not lived up to another’s expectations. He has not lived up to his own expectations and he certainly has not lived up to God’s standards. Yet God gives grace to the humble.
If he recognizes this, the humble man is free.
-SSxG